On July 30, 2014, my wife and I welcomed Landon Ray Keeney to the world. A magical moment we will never forget.
About a day later, we let the world know by introducing him on Facebook (is there any other way?). One day and 244 “Likes” later, we were just as happy before we made the announcement as we were after. The only thing that really changed were the number of people happy for us.
What does this say about us as a society? I can tell you what I think it means to me.
Social is a vehicle, not a value.
We live in a wonderful era of communication where we can instantly connect with thousands of people across the world and give them a “status update” on our lives. But do you really need everyone else’s approval on your life?
I really hope not.
The response of 244 “Likes” will not define my relationship with my new son or our happiness as a family. What social did do was open up hundreds of wonderful communication opportunities with our closest friends and family to talk about this newest miracle.
ACTION ITEM: Please see social media as a communication tool, and not a scoreboard driving you toward unhappiness or an unfulfilled life. There is far too much to be thankful for!